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« on: October 04, 2005, 05:22:11 AM »

Couldn't really think of any other area to post this in, and this is the first forum I'm doing so in, so here goes:

I'm to be married to my Sierra music sweetheart, Shannon Leaman, in January. Now that I have a concrete wedding date, I want to invite any Sierra music lovers who can come to Oklahoma (Yes, Oklahoma state, in the USA) to attend the event (assuming you at least know who I am!).

If any of you are interested, or just want to drop me a line, please post here or email me at my new address: alistairg(I hate spam- remove brackets!)@dodo.com.au

Regards,
- Alistair
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« Reply #1 on: October 04, 2005, 11:39:11 AM »

Cheers Alistair.
GL to you 2..

(btw you're from Australia right, so why in the US?)
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« Reply #2 on: October 04, 2005, 12:44:44 PM »

Congratulations, Alistair!

One piece of advice, based on experience -

I don't know why this is the case, but as soon as people see how happy you two are together, and how you act together, you may inevitebly receive comments about how the honeymoon-phase "won't last", and "give it a year", as if they expect some fire to die out. I really wish people would not share their own marriage insecurities, but I suggest responding as my wife and I did...

Smile sweetly... and then prove them wrong. Smiley
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« Reply #3 on: October 04, 2005, 01:53:02 PM »

Congratulations. So will she be moving to Australia with you, or will you stay with her in Oklahoma?
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« Reply #4 on: October 04, 2005, 11:15:37 PM »

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Cheers Alistair.
GL to you 2..

(btw you're from Australia right, so why in the US?)

Thanks DrJ! Appreciated.

In the USA, because, well, she's American Smiley

I met her on my site's obscure little Sierra music forums a couple years back. Got close this year, and the rest as they say is history.. Smiley

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Congratulations, Alistair!

One piece of advice, based on experience -

I don't know why this is the case, but as soon as people see how happy you two are together, and how you act together, you may inevitebly receive comments about how the honeymoon-phase "won't last", and "give it a year", as if they expect some fire to die out. I really wish people would not share their own marriage insecurities, but I suggest responding as my wife and I did...

Smile sweetly... and then prove them wrong. Smiley

Eric, thanks so much!

Likewise, I know exactly how you feel. I've already begun to get such comments. Smiley

I'll remember to give the sweet smile from now on. THanks again!

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Congratulations. So will she be moving to Australia with you, or will you stay with her in Oklahoma?

Thanks, NRS- and she's moving to Australia.

- Alistair
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« Reply #5 on: October 05, 2005, 01:14:36 AM »

Congratulations Alistair...its really a surprise since you are so young to tie the knot. I hope everything works out well for both of you. Cheers mate!
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« Reply #6 on: October 05, 2005, 05:59:06 AM »

So do I, Honda. Wink Thanks a lot.

Incidentally, in case there's any Australians/Asia-Pacific regionals here, there'll also be a reception/wedding in Australia. Smiley

- Alistair
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« Reply #7 on: October 06, 2005, 12:36:06 AM »

:smt057

Congrats!!  Gee, and I didn't even know you were pregnant!  

Wait...wrong response.  That's someone else who's pregnant.

I'll mark my calendar -- I'm ready for a trip to Australia, anyway.  (Been to Oklahoma...don't really want to go back.)  Smiley

Again, congrats all around!
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« Reply #8 on: October 06, 2005, 06:26:16 PM »

Congratulations, Alistair!!

It amazes me how trans-continental relationships manage to work out at all.

When my girlfriend and I don't see each other for a week, it's already hard enough to manage - let alone going on for months before seeing one another again.

But I guess sometimes it works out. I had a flatmate who's girlfriend was Danish, and they'd see each other once every 2-3 months for about 2 weeks. Phone bills were very high, you can bet on that, but in the end, after 3 years, he moved over there to do his MA, and they've been living together ever since.
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« Reply #9 on: October 09, 2005, 02:59:23 AM »

Alistair, Congratulations!!

I wish you and Shannon all the best.  May you be forever happy together.   Smiley
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« Reply #10 on: October 10, 2005, 06:17:49 AM »

Thanks for all the replies once more. Sorry for my late one- issue with my phone line, now resolved.

Now have broadband too Cheesy

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Congrats!! Gee, and I didn't even know you were pregnant!

Wait...wrong response. That's someone else who's pregnant.

I'll mark my calendar -- I'm ready for a trip to Australia, anyway. (Been to Oklahoma...don't really want to go back.)  

Again, congrats all around!

Hey, thanks Tom Cheesy

(Aren't you two a little old to be parents again? Wink )

And, are you serious about coming down to AU?

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Congratulations, Alistair!!

It amazes me how trans-continental relationships manage to work out at all.

When my girlfriend and I don't see each other for a week, it's already hard enough to manage - let alone going on for months before seeing one another again.

But I guess sometimes it works out. I had a flatmate who's girlfriend was Danish, and they'd see each other once every 2-3 months for about 2 weeks. Phone bills were very high, you can bet on that, but in the end, after 3 years, he moved over there to do his MA, and they've been living together ever since.

Thanks Ari. Smiley
Put it this way- phone conversations, 5 hours a day. Wink

Thankfully I live in an age where I can chat via internet live chat for free.

Thanks to Ghostie as well. Thanks so much, all of you!

- Alistair
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« Reply #11 on: October 10, 2005, 05:48:05 PM »

Well, I'm late and I didn't get the chance to congratulate you, Alistair Smiley .

I won't go into pseudo-philosophical about how beautiful this sort of thing is, though undoubtedly it is great that you met the person you wish to spend your life with in this unique fashion. It proves that this community is more than just several dozen people that like to go back to the dinosaur days and the glory of Sierra On-Line - it's something that creates feelings and emotions and one can't treat anyone who has some sort of input as just another screen name, with nothing that makes it differ from the millions of others out there.

Anyway, I wish Shannon and you all the best in the future, a life full of excitement and deprived of any and all boredom. As far as I can tell from her contributions, she's a very helpful and caring person and I hope you won't exploit that Wink . Nah, just kidding -- once again, congratulations and good luck (no, I won't say "you'll need it" Smiley )!
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« Reply #12 on: October 10, 2005, 11:01:55 PM »

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again, congratulations and good luck (no, I won't say "you'll need it"


Ahhh...If it were only all roses.  But Alistair has the same advantage Dianne and I have, which I feel is a tremendous positive for a marriage:  Dianne and I met online; we both love Sierra games...well, at least some of them;  Smiley  Make it, gaming, in general.  

We both love MIDI and we're both musicians;  we're both into bicycling, computers, home improvement stuff, and sci-fi.  We've just celebrated our fourteenth anniversary, last month, and are still very much in love with each other.  We do...however...have our off moments...as do all couples.

I really do believe meeting someone online, and getting to know them that way before ever meeting them, provides a richer basis for a relationship.  It's, by no means, superficial!
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« Reply #13 on: October 11, 2005, 01:34:37 AM »

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Well, I'm late and I didn't get the chance to congratulate you, Alistair  .

I won't go into pseudo-philosophical about how beautiful this sort of thing is, though undoubtedly it is great that you met the person you wish to spend your life with in this unique fashion. It proves that this community is more than just several dozen people that like to go back to the dinosaur days and the glory of Sierra On-Line - it's something that creates feelings and emotions and one can't treat anyone who has some sort of input as just another screen name, with nothing that makes it differ from the millions of others out there.

Man, she came to our message board in 2003 asking about SHivers music. Cheesy

Yes, it tells me what's special about the legacy of Sierra too. I personally don't like the 'new breed' of fans- 14 year olds who declare KQIX the greatest thing ever, or majority of AGDI forum posters. However that doesn't stop me from liking the majority of SIerra fans. Despite everything, just two people who dislike each other, remembering Roger Wilco dying in some amazing way can be enough to put aside differences. Smiley

I dunno. I've come into the community late myself, and just love being able to interact with mature, interesting, assorted folks. From all over the world, connected by this love of Sierra. I love it!!

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Anyway, I wish Shannon and you all the best in the future, a life full of excitement and deprived of any and all boredom. As far as I can tell from her contributions, she's a very helpful and caring person and I hope you won't exploit that  . Nah, just kidding -- once again, congratulations and good luck (no, I won't say "you'll need it"  )!

Thanks Jan, my man. She's just plain nice, and loving, which is what I want in a woman. Well, she loves Sierra (game, really) music too. Smiley

I 'exploit' it in that I appreciate it and need it. It hurts like hell being without her, but not much longer to go now. Smiley

I do need some luck. Don't know how we'll make it money-wise, but we'll have to! How'd you do it, Tom?

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Ahhh...If it were only all roses. But Alistair has the same advantage Dianne and I have, which I feel is a tremendous positive for a marriage: Dianne and I met online; we both love Sierra games...well, at least some of them;  Make it, gaming, in general.

Yeah, I thought there might be some parallels. Smiley

SHe's not as much of a Sierra gamer as I am- she's more or a 'later-Sierra' game, and I haven't played Shivers, Phantasmagoria, Lighthouse, etc etc.

But we'll get there. Wink

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We both love MIDI and we're both musicians; we're both into bicycling, computers, home improvement stuff, and sci-fi. We've just celebrated our fourteenth anniversary, last month, and are still very much in love with each other. We do...however...have our off moments...as do all couples.

Shannon is an artist. She drew the Eco Quest 2 art- superb!!

So although she doesn't understand what 'ROland GS' is, I don't understand what 'art layers' are, so it's even. Wink We both have creative passions and both support each other and love what the other does.

Yeah, it'll be interesting to see how we clash in person for a sustained period.

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I really do believe meeting someone online, and getting to know them that way before ever meeting them, provides a richer basis for a relationship. It's, by no means, superficial!

I totally agree. We're both physically attracted to the other, and in modern day relationships I get the feeling that superficiality is creeping in, i nthe days of 'webcams' and etc.

However we chatted for months and months before meeting, and the meeting was nothing short of.. breathtaking.

I'm glad I know how Tom feels. Nothing superficial or shallow about what we have, and I'm damned glad for it.

- Alistair
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« Reply #14 on: October 16, 2005, 02:38:31 AM »

Congratulations to you, Alistair.

I have two bits of advice I'd like to share.  The first is the two "C's" of marriage.  Compromise and communication.  Follow these two, and things will always work out.

The second:  Have a sense of humor.  Laugh, joke, have fun.

Again, my best!
-Craig
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« Reply #15 on: October 16, 2005, 12:01:32 PM »

Thanks, Craig. Smiley

Yeah, the first two I really have to work on when we're together.

Sense of humour is good, too. Definitely. Smiley

Thanks again- where are you folks from, anyway? As I said, you're more than welcome to attend the ceremony and party if you can make it. Smiley

Regards,
- Alistair
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« Reply #16 on: October 17, 2005, 09:45:21 PM »

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Thanks again- where are you folks from, anyway? As I said, you're more than welcome to attend the ceremony and party if you can make it. Smiley

California.  A bit far away from Oklahoma to attend a wedding but it's kind of you to invite folks from these boards!
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« Reply #17 on: October 17, 2005, 10:18:28 PM »

Yeah, CA is a bit far. Smiley

Annoying thing about Oklahoma; right in the middle, so almost EVERYONE is 2000 miles away. Wink

Happy to invite people who love Sierra, if they're known to me. Will help to make it more memorable and special for both me and my fiance.

- Alistair
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« Reply #18 on: November 15, 2005, 10:43:30 PM »

And I leave in 17 hours, folks. See:
http://users.boardnation.com/~sierramusic/index.php?board=1;action=display;threadid=141

Loo kforward to being in the US of A when I make my next post!

- Alistair
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« Reply #19 on: November 16, 2005, 12:58:50 AM »

Congratulations.  I hope your marriage works out well, and that over the years of ups and downs (like any relationship), overall I hope you all find happiness.  May God bless both of you.  Smiley
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